So you're happy and you've decided to move in together. Well, I am not a guru on the topic but this is my first-hand experience and lesson learned. My hubby and I have been living together for 2 years now and I can honestly say every day with him is amazing. I don't always do a great job at the below but these are things that I have been working on and it has made a noticeable difference in our relationship and strengthen our bond.
5 Tips for Happy Couple Cohabitation
1. Don't be a Nag!
Ladies, I know you probably hate me for saying it but it’s true. We all have our own standards of living, so when you’re ready to strangle him for leaving his dirty clothes on the floor or the sink full of dishes, just remember that he is probably thinking the same thing about you leaving your mascara open on the bathroom counter or leaving the shower running for 5 minutes before getting in (my bad babe lol). Before you freak or yell, just remember that no one is perfect. So unless it’s a major deal breaker keep it to a minimum: pick your battles.2. Get a hobby and Encourage his.
Most people have a hard time grasping why you both need hobbies. Nothing ruins a good thing quicker than too much time together. I know you live together but it doesn’t mean the end of your having a life as you know it. So make time for your hobby whether it is shopping, hanging with friends, reading, etc. Spend some you time and encourage him to do the same. If he wants to play video games or play basketball with friends encourage him. Be his biggest fan. It will nourish and cultivate your relationship. There will come a time when you just need some alone time.3. Be the Bonnie to His Clyde-Partnership in every aspect
Not only do you need to be partners in your relationship but also at home. Living with someone else is always an adjustment. So it’s important to share the workload at home. No one person wants to be responsible for solely taking care of the entire household, so it’s important to share the responsibilities. You have to be partners in every aspect of your life! Make a list & split the chores you’ll avoid the resentment in the future.4. Spice it up. Discover your Sasha Fierce.
Never get so comfortable that you don’t spice it up. Every once in a while, you need to put on your “freak” dress and go for a night out or a night in (wink wink). I know he tells you how beautiful you are without makeup, but it’s important you give it that extra effort sometimes to remind him what he has at home. Don’t let this be an every now & then either, be consistent.5. Share your Life!
So often we just become so wrapped up in each other that we shut everyone else out. So invite over your friends & family for drinks, game nights (We love Cards Against Humanity), dinner, etc. There is nothing more rewarding than having others over and having them share in your new space and love. I have not always been the best at this but, the few times I have done this it was the most rewarding moments in our relationship.He popped the question! Being engaged is amazing but it comes with a lot of unexpected obstacles. Let me just start by saying don't take anything personal during the engagement. Oh and of course, Congratulations!
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